The Parable of the Prodigal Son Life Lessons

The Parable of the Prodigal Son in the Bible (also known as the Parable of the Lost Son) is a well-known story of a son who does his father wrong, leaves home, regrets it, comes back, and is instantly forgiven by his father.

You can find the parable in Luke 15:11-32 NIV.

Why did the father forgive the prodigal son? Did the parable of the lost son mean the good son’s loyal behavior was unappreciated? Lessons I’ve learned about this powerful parable.

What’s the main message of the Parable of the Prodigal Son?

The main message of The Prodigal Son Parable is that it doesn’t matter how far we stray from our Heavenly Father or how much we squander the gifts he provides, he is always delighted when we turn back to him in repentance.

His unconditional love is waiting for us to return home where he greets us with open arms, as the father rejoiced in his son’s return.

Every lost child (a sinner, meaning all of us) who is found (turns to God) is cause for the greatest celebration.

Do you relate to the prodigal son or the “good” son?

One interesting aspect of the Parable of the Prodigal Son is that we either seem to relate to the ‘good’ child or the prodigal child. Our perspective can change at various points in our lives, so it’s helpful to understand the parable from both perspectives.

Do you relate to the Prodigal Son?

Do you relate to the “good” son?

Parable of the Prodigal Son Lesson:

3 LESSONS FROM THE PRODIGAL SON:

Which son we relate to may change depending on where we are in our Christian journey. At times, we may be seeking God in earnest and relate to the older son.

Other times, we may be lost in the far country and have let the priorities of the world come between us and God. In that case, we may relate more to the prodigal son.

1. Look Inside:

The Prodigal Child

If you relate to the prodigal son, look inside. Find God dwelling there. See the beauty he knows is inside, even if it’s hidden. See the worth he sees in you.

Ask your loving father for forgiveness and welcome him into your heart. He forgives you! Venture on a process of self-discovery to find your way back home.

The “Good” Child

If you truly are the ‘good’ child (the older brother), look no further than within your own heart. Are you happy with how the Father is treating you on a daily basis – by providing food and shelter, a job, and a family? His unconditional love, comfort, and grace?

I believe the answer would be YES for most people. God has given you all you need – and more. You are blessed with your father’s love.

Be grateful for those gifts. Holding a grudge against the prodigal son accomplishes nothing more than putting a barrier between you and God.

Besides, one day it will be you needing forgiveness and you’ll be thankful when He welcomes you back with open arms.

2. Know that He is waiting for you with open arms:

The Prodigal Child

If you’re the prodigal son, which we all are at some point due to our sin, be grateful for the unconditional love and forgiveness that will greet you when you come back home. Make a concerted effort to curb further disobedience or disrespect.

The “Good” Child

No matter how close to God you currently are, rest assured that he loves you with agape love that’s greater than we can even comprehend.

When you fall, he’ll be there to catch you. When you stray (and you probably will), he welcomes you back. His love for you is independent of any other relationship he has. You are all his!

3. It’s only about you and God:

Whether you relate to the wayward son or the oldest son, the parable of the prodigal son is really about living your life between you and God and not worrying about keeping score with anyone else.

Be thankful he’s there for you when you follow him and will always be there to welcome you back if you fail him.

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Carry the Lesson with You:

Wherever you are in your Christian journey, the lesson is the same. It’s all about our personal relationship with God and recognizing that no matter our thoughts or actions, he loves us and welcomes us with open arms when we turn to him.

"In the end it is between you and God. It was never between you and them anyway." 

Written by Kent M. Keith but normally attributed to Mother Teresa

Prodigal Son for Youth Lesson Bundle

The points made above are also summarized in our Prodigal Son Printable Pocket Booklet and Coloring Booklet which are perfect for adult or youth groups. Prodigal Son Youth BUNDLE is the best value for the home or classroom.

More Parables!

Do you love the parables as much as I do? You may enjoy reading life lessons on these others (listed below), these activities for adults and children, or this list of Parables and Meanings. More parable lessons are underway. See them all HERE!

Do you love journaling? Does writing down your personal reflections help you process your thoughts more fully? Perhaps these Christian writing journals will be helpful as you reflect on the life lessons of the parables.

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Check out the Printable Pocket Guides below…

The Prodigal Son Pocket Faith Guide Booklet
Our Prodigal Son Parable Printable Booklet is a one-page printable that helps keep this message of God’s love alive in your daily life. This is a NON-COLORING version.
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Have some coloring fun for yourself or a group. Our Prodigal Son Parable Printable COLORING Booklet is a one-page printable that helps keep this message of God’s love alive in your daily life. This is a COLORING version.
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