As a child, I always prayed for what I wanted. For my Mom to be cured of cancer, for my brother who died when he was sixteen to be resting in heaven, to pass a test in school.
7 “Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. 8 For everyone who asks receives; the one who seeks finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened.Matthew 7:7-8 NIV
During adulthood, I realized I’d missed the mark on praying for God’s will to be done, even though I’d prayed it a million times during The Lord’s Prayer.
10 your kingdom come,Matthew 6:10 NIV
your will be done,
on earth as it is in heaven.
The beauty of God’s gift of free will allows us to make choices independently of God’s wishes.
Once I grasped the conflict of “God’s Will” versus “Ask and you shall receive,” I was stymied.
Should I really ask if my wishes weren’t in line with God’s will? If my wishes didn’t seem possible or probable?
One day the answer jumped off the pages and knocked me upside the head.
39 Going a little farther, he fell with his face to the ground and prayed, “My Father, if it is possible, may this cup be taken from me. Yet not as I will, but as you will.”Matthew 26:39 NIV
When Jesus was about to be turned over to His inevitable death, He was scared and sad. He was agonizing over the path before Him. He was human. It was the last thing He wanted to do. Even though everything in His human life had led Him to that moment, He wasn’t ready. He didn’t want it.
And in two sentences, He taught us everything we need to know about praying, about asking and receiving, about praying for God’s will to be done.
He asked for what He wanted:
Going a little farther, he fell with his face to the ground and prayed, “My Father, if it is possible, may this cup be taken from me.”Matthew 26:39 NIV
And immediately after He also surrendered to the will of God.
“Yet not as I will, but as you will.”Matthew 26:39 NIV
It’s really how a respectful child would react to a parent. “Mom, I want to go to the movies, but if you say I need to stay home and do my homework, I will respect that and not be mad and throw a tantrum, even if I’m disappointed.”
“Ask and you shall receive” doesn’t mean we’ll always get our way. It means our prayers will be answered in one way or another, probably not in the way we imagine or hope or pray they’ll be answered.
Follow Jesus’ lead and ask God for your wants and needs, but surrender to His supreme power and be open-minded to the answer He gives.
Do you pray for your wishes or God’s will? Let me know in the comments below!
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