Are there any benefits of suffering? It doesn’t seem logical that pain and sadness could have a benefit. Yet, we suffer in this life.
Why is there suffering?
I sometimes struggle with the pain and suffering in the world. I understand that man created this condition by disobedience, but on a daily basis, it feels like undue punishment.
However, a glass-half-full view of heartache is the potential benefits of suffering. There is inexplicable joy, knowledge, and understanding that enduring through suffering has the potential to bring.
We have to carry the weight
As empathic beings, we can imagine what it feels like to carry someoneās burdens, but unless we experience those burdens first-hand, we canāt fully appreciate the weight.
It is only by carrying the weight of our own burdens that we can experience life-changing growth.
Isn’t a perfect life perfect?
Most of us would probably wish for a perfect life, but a perfect life would be difficult to appreciate. Without burdens, we become complacent with our blessings. We start to expect the goodness. We stop appreciating.
Where’s the sun?
One simple example is my migration to Florida from the Northeast. When my husband and I (and fur baby) first moved to the Sunshine State, I commented, almost on a daily basis, that it was obvious how my new state had gotten its nickname. I relished the sunshine and beautiful winter weather, treasuring my outdoor āofficeā.
After several months of near-constant sunshine, a few random cloudy days irked me. āWhere the heck is the sun?ā I asked my husband. The unusual dreariness made me realize Iād stopped appreciating the sunshine.
Gradual complacency led to me taking the beautiful gift of sunshine for granted. The clouds restored my appreciation of the sunshine.
Life’s difficult challenges
A more dramatic example is taking our good health for granted.
Iām living proof of a common clichĆ© ā that getting cancer was one of the biggest blessings of my life.
My breast cancer diagnosis stopped my charmed life in its tracks. But like so many others, my post-cancer journey has been an amazing path Iād have never otherwise taken. Thereās something about facing the Grim Reaper that renews appreciation of the frailty of life and motivates us to make the most of our brief journey on earth.
The valleys of life help us appreciate the peaks.
Without the valleys, the views from the peaks gradually lose their awesomeness.
We can usually find a blessing in pain. Not that we can see it while weāre still in the fire of suffering, but that fire has the potential to lead to gifts that we cannot imagine.
God’s plan is perfect
In your times of suffering, remind yourself that Godās plan is perfect. While we cannot understand the difficult paths we face, God is in control and His end result will normally exceed our expectations.
God is able to bring benefits of suffering that will forever change us. Suffering can lead us to living the life He intended for us more fully.
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